"I was kissed by him." To the girls who are worried about Chizuko Ueno, the clear answer Jesus Jesus Jesus is Jesus, No is no | President Online (President Online)

* This article is a re -edited part of Chizukuro Ueno, "How girls live" (Iwanami Junior Shinsho).

[Q] I have a boyfriend.I want to know my trend when I'm not together.I will put LINE persistently.I was angry if I didn't read it, and I didn't talk to a man other than me.Should I break up?

[A] Wow, you're already giving the answer yourself, "Is it better to break up?"Yes, the answer.

When you become a boyfriend or girlfriend, it seems that your boyfriend thinks about me.Regardless of where or whatever you do, you should give me a highest priority.This is called "Olsama man".

You're not the difference that receives this attitude, "Wow, I'm thinking about me so much, I'm caring so much."My boyfriend's attitude is attachment and control.He said, "Don't talk to a man other than me."Half of humanity eliminates a man and a man other than him from there.You don't misunderstand such a man's "monopoly", "I'm happy to think so much."

Such a man may become a stalker or a DV when you do not do what you want.A stalker man may kill a woman when a woman escapes, and eventually wants to make it "my thing" if it is about another man.Oh, it's terrible.

So if you notice early, the better you break up, the shallow wounds.Your judgment is wise.

If there is still a woman who can't break up, what kind of person do you think?For example, if you are a boyfriend for the first time, your boyfriend is something like this, such as being loved.And if you're a boyfriend who has finally made it, you don't want to lose it.He is not confident in himself, and he thinks he has to do it because he is a boyfriend who chose me.He can tell his friends that he has a boyfriend, and he doesn't want to lose his boyfriend.All of them are not for your internal reasons, but just because they are outside.

Remember, be loved, cherished.Being cherished and respecting your will.It's good to be cherished.If your relationship with your boyfriend is not good, it's a warning signal.This boyfriend is clearly ugly.Listen to your heart and your body, and stop the bad relationship as soon as possible.